Humor
- How do you initiate playfulness, and how does that change for situation to situation.
When I see a debacle approaching, I use the handy gift of humor to lighten the situation up, this can sometimes lead to a miss communicated outcome where the other individual feels attacked, but with the proper use of my humor I can make it funny and non harmful. #nonewhereharmedinthemaking.
- How do other people you know express playfulness? What can you learn from observing playfulness in others.
When involving ourselves in an activity we all use a form of playfulness to help pick up the mood of a task and make it more interesting to be working on together, it helps when we are in groups and you can see who reaches out to break the awkwardness and start the conversation.
- In what situations has humor been a barrier for you in connecting with others.
When placed in a group situation or activity at school and not knowing the others very well, humor would usually be the conversation starter or something along those lines but certain people can not take a joke or find anything funny out of a boring situation and it makes it very hard to want to communicate more with them. This creates a barrier for me.
Hope
- What are the conditions that have lead you to be hopeful in your life.
Getting to that stage in level one where I didn't think I was gonna pass but made it through, getting my results back and seeing merits instantly boosted my hope and confidence in myself which lead to to go into year 12 level two with a lot more hope in myself.
- How do you balance what is realistic and what is unrealistic in terms of your expression of hope and optimism.
I would usually try and imagine myself in that situation or think about another past experience which may have been similar and see if it could really happen. Mostly its that extra hope you have in yourself that pushes you to succeed in the end but other than that its quite easy to determine what is real and what is not.